Your not alone, I'm 38 and have urine incontinence issues, iv had 3 virginal opps, all to correct pelvic organ prolaps, first was uritha prolaps into my vigina, second was bowl prolaps into my vigina then a year later virginal hysterectomy, I'm 5 years post opp now and still having issues, yes I use incontinence products xxx

Yes, since injuries from car accident yrs ago. I wear pads always. My bladder leaks at odds times throughout day. Mostly after a when to bathroom like a few min after I wipe, sitting on toilet extra long doesn't help. It's when I'm standing and walking. Sometimes I feel as I need to pee constantly. And nothing come out. Embarresing to talk about for sure!

I also have to concentrate to urinate! I gently massage my back to help or read. People think I'm nuts.

Is there anyone new - under 7 years ago- struggling with this issue. This is totally me!
Not sure if it relates but i also lost interest in sex. Sad for my husband. But after tries with pain, im not even interested in trying anymore!

I also have this problem and have to use Depends, it is very embarrasing for me too. I also have seizures like use that causes loss of bladder.