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Hi All I Am In A Toxic Relationship Where I Find My Stress And Pain Levels Go Up To Ten .however When Spending Time With My Beloved Daughter

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Cape Town, ZA

Of 27yrs old I find my pain and stress levels are right down to three and then I will also do the things like cook and clean .anyone going through my problem .I would love to hear from you .Regards Kimlane.

December 8, 2018
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A MyFibroTeam Member

Get out of toxic relationships.
We with FM can't even live that way.

December 9, 2018
A MyFibroTeam Member

Don’t under any circumstances take that shit of anybody especially your own partner @A MyFibroTeam Member @A MyFibroTeam Member . 2 yrs after I was diagnosed my relationship ended and I thought it was the end of the world . It’s only looking back now I realise how unhappy I was anyway and how selfish she really was in our relationship. I’d struggle day in day out and I was still doing all the household chores doing the laurndry shopping . Now I live by myself it can be hard sometimes but I tell you what the good outways the bad so much less stress and only me to worry about .... Any type of abuse is just wrong and we have enough to deal with just getting out of bed of a morning that’s even if we sleep . Get out of it trust me it’s better in the long run x

December 9, 2018
A MyFibroTeam Member

Yes get out if he is putting his hands on you .take your babies and be safe .mine is abusing me mentaly but I am in the process of leaving as they dont understand what we going through with pain alawys feel free to chat to me if you want .love kimlane

December 9, 2018
A MyFibroTeam Member

Yes. My husband was very mean to me last night. He told me I was lazy, asked me if I was “taking my meds properly,” and when I went to stand up for myself and open the shower curtain to let him know he couldn’t speak to me like that, he lunged at me to do a fake choking move at my throat. As in, leave me alone or I’ll choke you. Toxic/abusive has caused so much stress. I didn’t sleep all night after he did that. I hurt all over and feel weaker than ever. My arms feel like noodles, my neck hurts and is stiff and my legs are cramping. All i want to do is cry but i have two babies to take care of.

December 9, 2018
A MyFibroTeam Member

@A MyFibroTeam Member Sounds like my life also. My only focus is my daughter and my health. She's 18, and has q beautiful spirit. I pull away from anything that I feel may be stressfull, toxic, or negative around me. I try to surround myself with positive energy as much as possible.

December 8, 2018

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